About Lex Leostara

Image is of a right hand with pointed, black nails, holding a striped snake. The hand is nestled amongst greyscale roses, with a dark red heart with an eye in its center flanked by lavender stalks on either side, with a small, dark red crescent moon on the pointer finger.

“Master, you have stated she was so called because she inspired [humanity] with carnal desires.” Dialogue between Rabbis Abba and Simon, The Zohar: Bereshith to Lekh Lekha


Welcome to my digital lair!

I’m your hostess with the mostess and star of the show, Lex Leostara.

The basics: I’m a Black, Jewish genderqueer femme/woman in my late 20s living in the beautiful Windy City. I’ve been kicking around the world of power dynamics and BDSM on and off for all of my adult life. My first introduction to D/s was when I was a teen when I walked in on a femdom roleplay scene — but it wasn’t until over a decade later that I put together 2+2 around my own dominance. While I’m queer, I have a preference for dating men and primarily dominating them.

This is a polished pet project — a tender documentation of my journey with juicy bits included along hte way. I write for myself, but if you happen to come across this little corner of the Internet and enjoy my peep show, all the better 🙂


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